So far so good.

You’ve been dating, you’ve impressed them with your knowledge and skills, you know what schools they went to, you’ve even met their pet poodle. So now is the time to make things more personal.

Yes it’s time to panic! (Just kidding)

You want to invite them over for coffee. You imagine yourselves sipping coffee – yes actually sipping coffee, you cosy up close together, and then the fireworks begin.

Or not as the case may be.

If you want to be their best lover, then a bit of good advice is in order:

Set the Mood and Plant the Idea : Where Ever You Are
Take control of the situation by creating a relaxing and sensual ambiance in the restaurant, play or home. Try and get an intimate dining space at the restaurant. If you’re at home, play some relaxing music, have some tasty nibbles or chocolates at hand, dance slowly together, light a few candles, turn on the aromatherapy burner and titillate their senses – sight, sound, smell, touch and taste. Stimulate the Grey Matter
The largest sex organ on the planet is located between the ears. It is known as the ‘Human Brain’ Shame on you for thinking otherwise! Nothing will turn him or her on , out and flying sky high like a bit of grey matter massage. Find out their interests, hobbies, likes and dislikes and chat to them. Ask intelligent, engaging and open questions to get them thinking and stimulated. If you’re not sure what to ask them to do some home work before hand. Check out the latest headlines, read some magazines related to their interests, find out what’s going on in your local area. Create suspense and tension
Don’t just rush in their like a bunch of hormonal teenagers (unless you happen to be a hormonal teenager and reading this!). Be a bit seductive, charismatic, and sophisticated. Hint at the luscious pleasures that await him or her upon submission. Tell them what you like about them. But more importantly tell them what you’d love to do to them! Apply tantric Touch
When you first start touching there is a natural desire for the hands to wander to far and distant places. Use tantric sensual philosophy to slowly build arousal, layer sensations on the body. Tantric sensual touch is an ancient technique designed to heighten your senses and therefore sensuality, to increase pleasure, and produce more intense and powerful pleasure. Of course there is a bit of learning curve, but it is well worth the effort. Tease, Tease and Tease
Don’t make your approach, touch, techniques so obvious. Always keep them on their toes by changing the rhythm, pressure, location and focus. Keep them guessing!

Attracting and impressing a new love interest can seem a bit stressful and challenging, but a bit of preparation and skill is all you need to have them anticipating your every word and touch. Delight in sensuality – yours and theirs, and bring on the fireworks!